Two Common Mistakes Divorced Women Make When They Start Dating Again

Doesn't matter whether she got divorced today or has been for a few years now, there are two common mistakes that divorced women make when they start dating again.

• The first mistake is going into details about her ex.  Just because a man asks about your past relationship doesn't mean he wants to know every single sorted detail.  As she goes on and on with her never-ending story, you can see the blood slowly leave his face.  When you are tempted to give too much detail too soon, remember this.  Less is more.  While he might be curious, decide how much to tell and how much to keep.  Brené Brown says it best.  "People have to earn the right to hear your story."
  
• The second mistake is cooking for a man after the first date.  I call it the Rush to Booville. I've seen it over and over again.  The woman thinks that by inviting the man over she is being considerate and showing him that she is a keeper.  Especially with divorced women, there is a unconscious need to fill that vacant husband spot.  Consequently, men don't see it that way. They see it as, "Oh, I don't have to work no more," grab the remote and put his feet up.  This is not the outcome she wanted.  So here's my advice.  Rather than jump the gun, let him date you. Men respect what they work for.  

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