When Is The Right Time To Have "The Talk" With A Man

Although women want to know where they stand from the beginning with a man, we struggle with when we should ask.  As a result, many a woman finds her voice, her value and her vision for the relationship have all been compromised.  So when is the right time to have "the talk" with a man?  I'm going to answer that question with a more important one.  When is the right time to know what your intentions are?

We women play games with ourselves sometimes.  We tell ourselves that there is no harm.  We tell ourselves that we can handle it. We tell ourselves that if things don't work, we can get out.  All of this is right in theory only; not often in practice. Think about it. You are the one who stands to win or to lose. This is why it is important that a woman be certain of her own feelings, her own needs and where she is at this time in her life. Sometimes, like Iyanla Vanzant, she discovers that what she thought she wanted, she really doesn't at all.  

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How to Be Open Without Closing The Door on Your Standards

Read a blog about relationships and sandwiched in the 10 Steps To A This or How To Do That is this statement, "Be open." What does that mean? How do you stay open without closing the door on your standards?  How do you not cross the line?

It's simple music and math, I think.  The music is your voice. It's what you want deep down.  The melody in your soul.  The math is your value. It's the value you place on what you want. When there are inequities, it means you either aren't sure of what you want or you don't know for sure that what you are doing will get you what you want. In order to be open without closing the door on your standards, you have to be sure. Completely committed to your voice and your value.  That is what keeps you accountable to your vision.

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Why Friends With Benefits Make The Best Relationship Partners

Doesn't matter who came up with Friends With Benefits and the definition they gave it, the truth is Friends With Benefits make the best relationship partners. Before you write me off as a misogynist and demand my feminist card, let me explain.

By definition, a friend is someone we know and have an abiding affection for, right.  So building a strong friendship with the man you're interested in is a good thing.  But what about the word benefits. Let's take a look.  Contrary to the label, a benefit, put simply, is an advantage. In fact, benefit means to receive an advantage, profit or gain.  When you go out on a date with someone, you want to know what they have to offer else what's the point. So, how about ditching the label and build yourself a strong Friends With Benefits relationship.  Just make sure both of you are benefiting

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