Does The Man You're Dating Make You Feel Like He's Waiting For Someone Else To Show Up?

Have you ever gone out with a guy and though he was super polite and very complimentary, he seemed easily distracted, eyes looking away as if he were waiting for someone else to show up?  That use to leave me feeling puzzled until a guy friend of mine let me in on a secret.  "He's not sure you're the one, so he wants to keep his options open," my guy friend told me.

So what's a woman to do?  Just sit around and wait for the man to make his mind up? No!  It's time to roll up your sleeves and go into keeper mode.  At least that's what many women think. In my best Dr. Phil voice, however, I have to ask, "How is that working for ya?" Just because he's enjoying what he's getting does not mean the pendulum is swinging in your favor.  I suggest a second option.  Give him some space and go on about your full and joyous life. This I know for sure. He will figure things out much quicker and you won't feel stuck while he does.

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Two Common Mistakes Divorced Women Make When They Start Dating Again

Doesn't matter whether she got divorced today or has been for a few years now, there are two common mistakes that divorced women make when they start dating again.

• The first mistake is going into details about her ex.  Just because a man asks about your past relationship doesn't mean he wants to know every single sorted detail.  As she goes on and on with her never-ending story, you can see the blood slowly leave his face.  When you are tempted to give too much detail too soon, remember this.  Less is more.  While he might be curious, decide how much to tell and how much to keep.  Brené Brown says it best.  "People have to earn the right to hear your story."
  
• The second mistake is cooking for a man after the first date.  I call it the Rush to Booville. I've seen it over and over again.  The woman thinks that by inviting the man over she is being considerate and showing him that she is a keeper.  Especially with divorced women, there is a unconscious need to fill that vacant husband spot.  Consequently, men don't see it that way. They see it as, "Oh, I don't have to work no more," grab the remote and put his feet up.  This is not the outcome she wanted.  So here's my advice.  Rather than jump the gun, let him date you. Men respect what they work for.  

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